Defining Ray of hope….

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Ray of hope……….hmmm searching for a ray of hope…???? Than you must be in the darkness of hopelessness.. So first and foremost accept it…that you definitely have lost it because when you yourself accept there is no hope there can’t be any…so better don’t search for ray of hope..

As nothing such exists…but what is living is only a ray…its upon you whether you turn it into your strength… Or your greatest

weakness

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When life gives you jerks enjoy..them..complains are ornaments of the weak…this negativity seems obvious sometimes in life but today we are gonna discuss how to get out of this….sometimes when all the doors are closed…. All the roads are blocked
And we become a nobody… Even to our self’s…few peculiar things happen with us…
#we become addicted to the saddest lines in life-

#it might have been

#i should have
#i could have

##we feel the need of  a godfather or someone who can guide us..

###we no longer trust our self.

####we try to search an excuse to manipulate our self more than others to hide our mistakes..

##### we rethink on our failure and worry again and again about the problem instead of a solution.
This are very common yet peculiar traits…of a hopeless person.
better i should say of a loser…
Let’s suppose if we would never find a ray of hope..than what???no answer right or probably u will find one but it will take time..but what needs to be marked is there is no situation when you don’t find a ray of hope…so have you ever laid some stress on thinking about it that where from this ray appears.. Well i have an answer.. It comes from nowhere but from within us when we are fed up of cursing our self and celebrating our failures.. We our self find out or say create that ray of hope let me explain…

Remember as a child when you were unable to complete your homework on time u used to create instant excuse.. Before your teacher and when that idea or excuse used to click your mind you used to term it a ray of hope..but let’s see the other case when in life you fail and say for reference u r bankrupt.. And u can see no hope in life and a friend approaches u with idea of a business loan and you reject his idea thinking there is no hope left and you can’t take risk..but than after few days ultimately finding no other option u opt for loan considering it the only ray of hope..now whats point here is that proposal was same but now when you are mentally hopeful u consider it ray of hope and earlier u termed it as risk…

So i guess now u can get me better…so waiting for a ray of hope is just wastage of time…no ray of hope exists..what exists is your mentality and its that what makes the difference and builds a thin margin between hopefulness and hopelessness……so i believe next time when you are low you won’t kill your time searching for a ray of hope instead will create one for you….

There’s a saying in hindi… 
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Dhundha tin paiyan gehre pani paith houn bowri buran dari rahi kinare baith…
Which means those who enter into deep sea and search for pearl get it but those who sit and wait at the shore to find pearl and never enter into sea due to fear of getting drawn…their wait lasts forever and ever…and ever……

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Birds and their issues….

This little bird flaps its wings…
Flaps its wing,flaps its wings…
This little bird flaps its wings…
And flies away in the morning….

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This lovely lines by sarah Williams were just a poem to me till yesterday.. But today when i actually happened to come across a little birdie who is my neighbour..it was than i realized that yes this lines mean much more to the little creature it almost is great achievement of a birds life to learn to fly…..

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It was on Thursday evening that i was busy playing with my siblings..in our backyard.. When i noticed that something was wrong in my immediate neighborhood.. The residents a cute couple of bird was shouting and crying…i brought a stool to be able to reach their window.. And learn the matter but was really scared at the sight..inside their home.Their home was attacked by an evil snake…and their newborns were in danger..the greatest ISSUE was they couldn’t fly…so cannot fly away to safety like their parents…
I decided to help..and brought some water mixed with phenyle and sprinkled it around the nest the snake went away and the baby birds were saved….but this was not the end after a while the snake returned again my mother saw him near the tree and i on hearing this immediately went there with my only weapon at that moment the phenyle water…but to my greatest disappointment… And failure i was late this time the snake already swallowed one of the baby birds..but i out of anger threw almost the whole bottle of phenyle on him this time…the snake couldn’t move but somehow managed to hide himself in nearby bush…my neighborhood was in great pain…i felt it too not only i but i noticed my little bird family even didn’t sleep whole night…
Next morning i noticed mother birdie still shouting…perhaps was crying out her pain..she kept shouting whole day…but again when it was almost dusk…i realized the matter was something else as i saw some visitors at my neighbour’s place..as if some important discussion was on its full swing…although i couldn’t understand even a single word of whatever they spoke but could catch every emotion in their tone…in order to be a part of the meet i again brought my stool and tried to look into my neighbour’s…oh i understand its a bad habit but than my neighbours never mind it…as even i don’t mind their surprise visit to my room or kitchen through my window…but while trying to adjust my stool i noticed something at the foot of the tree which is my neighbour’s residence… It Was a little baby bird…i understood the whole ISSUE in no time…it was the other baby bird who fell from his nest and his parents and relatives were worried about finding him..i thought of catching him and keeping him back to his nest but than it hopped away to nearby bush i tried searching him but couldn’t find him soon it began to rain heavily and i had to get inside my home it rained whole night…and again another sleepless night for me and my poor little neighbours..

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.next morning i got up early and went near the bush but again returned disappointed but suddenly smiled as i found the baby bird hiding near the stairs under leafs of jasmine..the little baby was shivering with cold i tried to catch him but he ran away again and set on fence i didn’t disturb him this time and instead tried to make his parents see him and so tried everything i could do..to make them notice him even sprinkled some grains near him so that they may come to eat and find him but to no use they were not interested in eating…
Momma bird was flying from tree to tree bush to bush searching for her baby…but was not able to find him…i could feel the baby bird was hungry and tired and couldn’t even reply to his mother’s call…and his voice was turning low and low.

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.i tried again to catch the baby bird but again he ran away and this time i could not make out about his whereabouts… I cursed myself for this…but than i saw he was again near his home tree…he drank a drop of dew and called out loud…and fell down exhausted on ground my heart broke but than i saw his family approaching i went inside not to disturb their privacy but could not holdback my curiosity so opened my window to get a glimpse and i saw mummy bird feed her darling…

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.and after a few minutes dady bird also joined them after being satisfied about baby birds safety my tired eyes could no longer support my curiosity so i went to bed..after wakening my first action was looking for my neighbours but they were not in their home nor near the tree not in the bush…nowhere probably they like human beings have changed their address by being fed up of this birdly issues…!!!but in all these happenings major issue of the birds was that the baby birds knew not how to fly………..!!! I am Missing my neighbours please convey my message to them…may be they are your new neighbour’s….so open your window to welcome them……

imageEmpty nest awaits you…..

Empty nest awaits you.....

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Distances!

Distances!.

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A perfect evening of Indian rural northeast…

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Eventide… Evening..dusk…sham…or sanjh…name differs…but not the intoxication… Throughout the world the definition of a perfect evening is divergent…..so today let me take you to a special corner of rural india….and lets explore the evening life of rural northeast…

O beloved return….
Please my angel….return…home
The dusk is growing wild..
I may not fear but than…
The waters of Brahmaputra.. Is rising high and high….

Yup the evenings in rural northeast are full of scenic beauty…the sun hiding in arms of brahmputra..people returning home with their cattles…long queue of cattles and the dust..generating throughout the pathway…..seems very pleasant to the locals it has a special smell of its own…and the sound of hymns as part of evening prayers is mesmerizing….most people rear ducks here so large groups of ducks returning home from ponds or river is also a common scene here…
And moving littile forward when evening is seen reaching its full youth most people can be seen moving towards desi liquor shops…which offer a special kind of drink made of rice…(haaz) its taste is awesome anyone visiting this corner of the world must taste it for once…
Besides this the smell of yummy evening snacks…can’t be missed out….

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Along with hot brewed black tea…but its local name is lal chai although there is nothing red in it.
And..during spring the evening winds blow romantically and with the sound of dhol,madal,pepa (local musical instruments)…..these simple evening has a kind of uniqueness in it..which can be better understood when experienced practically…….it is far different from the evenings filled with music n dance in a disco or pub or theatres…it has nothing artificial its original and we know nothing can be better than the original…..

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Lovely evening world……

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Reasons of blowing sankha..(conch) in india…

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Reasons of blowing sankha..(conch) in india…

Reasons of blowing sankha..(conch) in india….

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